I, being the obsessive researcher and planner that I am, have compiled several lists of London things: restaurants, pubs, shops, walks, museums, excursions, resources...everything. So far, these are mostly things that I have found via other sites. And being unemployed and pennypinching, I cannot say that I have experienced all of these things. I might as well share what I have found.
A little background:
I am American. My husband, Andy is English. We met at a bar in New York and somehow pulled of a cross-Atlantic romance for 2 years before he moved to NY for what was supposed to be 3 months but ended up being 3 years. When I first went to visit him, he was living in a house with 2 friends in Stoke Newington. Coming from my center-of-it-all East Village apartment, I was quite surprised to discover he had an hour long bus ride to get to work every morning! And you couldn't get a slice of pizza on every corner. And everything closed at 6pm. Basically, I was expecting London to be New York. This thinking was obviously flawed and seemed to take 2 or 3 more visits before I accepted the fact that I can't just walk down the street and expect to find decent food for a pound. I realized, that I needed to be prepared!
I have always hated being a tourist. But I kind of love maps. So two years ago I bought my own A-Z. I found it at the Tate. It has a hardback binding and doesn't have a huge A-Z on it so I can go unnoticed as I wander the maze that is London. In this little book I have marked a bunch of destinations that I would like to try. Basically, I hate spending too much money on shitty food (unfortunately kind of easy in London) and I know that there are amazing places...if you know where to find them. so this was my solution.
Enjoy.